Hmm.. what is a bucket list? Simple - it is a list of things you would like to do before you hit the bucket, that is before you die. Yes, I know it seems like a very depressing blog item for someone like me. But the idea of having my bucket list is to make sure my bucket has very very few things if death had to come unexpectedly to me. I have decided to make a bucket list every now and then and do things on the list, just so that I live a (near) fulfilled life when I die.
Saturday, September 20, 2008
Bucket List
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Labels: Bucket list
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
The loud-speaker has forced me to write a few words on Ganesh Puja. I am a festival lover you see :)
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Labels: Festivals, Ganesh Puja
Beauty and the beast or Bhajans and the loud speakers.
I love the celebrations, new clothes, sweets and the life that Indian festivals bring along. But there are some superbly annoying things associated with festivals. For the last 6 days, a neigborhood pandal has been playing Ganpati Bappa Mourya, agale baras tu jaldi aa... (refer to my next post to see what it means, in case you dont know yet.)
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Labels: Ganesh Puja, India
Monday, September 8, 2008
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Labels: Colors
Indian television - It's good you know!
Indian television is surely a notch above the rest. I remember this one month I spent at Europe and the frustration that TV brought along. First, there is no cable operator like in India, who will fix every cable related and small TV related problem for you. They have Set Top box or more popularly Sky TV (yes, the British version of Tata Sky, or is it the other way round?!) We did not have Tata Sky at home before I went to Europe, so operating 1 TV with 2 remote controls was quite a task for me. Oh was it 2 or 5? Yeah, the room had a remote control for the heater, for the DVD player, for the music system, the TV and for Sky TV. Phew! I spent an entire evening with my palms freezing outside the gloves (we Indians cant seem to do anything with gloves on!) but alas, I had not the faintest idea how to work the damn TV.
The next evening my friend came home (who had quite easily figured out switching on the flat screen monster) and we started surfing. There were many shows (read American idol, old episodes of friends and sex and the city - thats it.) There were about 60 channels playing either one of the 3 - All The Time. There was nothing else to watch. Again, my friend found for me a channel that would play hip-hop 24x7. And there too, no surprises, it was the same set of 5 songs. sigh!
And that is when, the me who cant stop saying how much I dislike TV, I started missing Indian television. The joy of Star Cricket, news on NDTV, Roadies on MTV, Boogie Woogie on Sony TV! Aah! man is that heaven!! I was desperate to the extent, some big bindis and zardosi sarees in a K serial-ish setting on TV would have made my day!
How can I forget the quintessential Indian advertisements? Authors' note: All ads in Europe were as if I was watching Asian Sky Shop. Ya, like what Bingo has tried doing, in a mocking way, is exactly how ads for packets of yucky looking potato wafers to the ads for washing machine are. That is when I appreciated Indian advertisements the most. I mean just see the latest Himani Pain relief ad, so symbolic of today's world.
The ad for an Insurance policy - Khwaab thode zyaada - it touches you somewhere. They know what we relate to. And the old dairy milk ad, remember? Kya swaad hai zindagi ka? Oh my God! now these are what I call advertisements. They are supposed to sell products, and they do!
Though I am back in India and it turns out I am not an Indian TV freak yet, I will still sign off saying - Long live Indian TV and the masala!
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Labels: India, Television, TV
Fettish :)
There is no way I do not write about my newest fettish! Perfumes (Vain me - I am back!) Yeah, it started with Heathrow airport I guess... the fragrances, oh I literally wanted to break those bottles and drown in the scented water!
Well, I did not know what 80 pounds were, I mean I knew, but I did not realise what would that translate into, when I had to pay back my credit card bills in Indian rupees! And there I went on this perfume purchase spree. Hugo, David Beckham, Givenchy, Diesel... and that is it. I ran out of credit limit! I came back home to realise there were a bunch of my favourite people eyeing my expensive and sexy perfumes. So...so I decide to give them away! Well not all, I saved the Beckham and Givenchy for myself!
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Labels: Me
Sunday, September 7, 2008
Life begins when you start living.
I was retrospecting and trying to figure out how my 23 years of life have been. I was surprised that my meories are of only 10 of them. Where did the other 13 go? And that is when I realized, we are all essentially either surviving or living or dying - all the time.
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Saturday, September 6, 2008
Some more from my wealth of books...
By the river Piedra I sat down and wept - Paulo Coelho
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Labels: Plagiarism with pride.
Detox - Back on popular demand.
I had a blog few years ago, which I eventually stopped using, since it had become more of an emotional vent than being a blog. On that blog I had posted something on the concept of detox. I detoxicated myself in a self propogated way. It was during the most transformative months of my life and it did help me lift myself up, when I was in pits. A lot of my friends have expressed interest in having the post back. So, here it is copy-pasted.
Body detox: zero alcohol and zero tobacco.
Light food. Slightly hungry at any given point in time.
Mind detox: This required me to free my mind of all the conditioning that has happened to me in the past so many years. Especially, the conditioning that is not of a conscious nature. I tried to be more open towards criticism, avoid arguments, avoid small talk, distance myself from others and come closer to myself. I had to struggle in the initial days of doing so. What was more important than the struggle itself was the realization that we spend so much time worrying about trivialities. How we place others above ourselves by worrying about what they think about us or do to us. After all how much time in a day do we spend trying to figure our position in the complex matrix of all the people we know in these years we have lived?
Why do we not make best friends of the same intensity than what we had in our school or college days? That is merely owing to the fact that each breathing day we spend here, all we learn is to compare. Again that springs from our Endeavour to filter. Filter the people in our life based on our preferences like as if we were buying a pair of shoes. Eventually we filter the chosen friends in such a way that we accept them only in parts. Where is the friend in totality whom we would accept for the way he or she is?
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Labels: Detox
Sahaja Yoga
I have been thinking of doing Yoga since eternity. I also came across a few Sahaja Yoga centres here. I want to go register at one of them. Sahaja Yoga, as described on its website, is a unique method of Yoga based on the concept of self-realization. Through this process an inner transformation takes place by which one becomes moral, united, integrated and balanced. I am a staunch believer of transformation through balance. So, here it is!
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Food for thought.
There are these really awesome things I keep coming across: while I read, while I surf or even while I listen to music. Sometimes I write them down on a piece of paper, sometimes in my diary and sometimes save it as drafts on my Gmail ID! I thought it is a nice idea to add them to my blog, so that whoever lands up here, gets to learn something while passing by my way. So here it goes:
- Life's metaphors are God's instructions.
- You have just climbed up and above the roof. There is nothing between you and infinite. Now let go.
- The day is ending. It is now time for something beautiful to turn into something else that is beautiful. Now let go.
- Your wish for resolution was a prayer. You being here is God's response. Let go and watch the stars come out - on the outside and on the inside.
- With all your heart, ask for grace and let go.
- With all your heart, forgive him, forgive yourself and let go.
- Let your intention be freedom from useless suffering. Then let go.
- Watch the heat of the day pass into cool night. Let go.
- When the karma of a relationship is done, only love remains. It's safe. Let go.
- When the past has passed from you at last, let go. Then climb down and begin the rest of your life. With great joy.
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Labels: Life